maintain healthy relationship
It is up to you to find happiness in your relationship; you are the only person responsible. Relationships often fail because one of the parties is unhappy in the relationship and so holds their partner responsible. You alone control your own life and your relationship, so you have to learn to accept what is good with what is bad and learn to give as well as take.
maintaining relationships
Here are some eleven useful tips on how to maintain a healthy relationship:
1 Make clear cut agreements and keep to them. Your partner is not always going to agree with you and you are going to have to compromise. Make a compromise and agree to it. Keeping agreements builds respect with your partner and creates trust and a feeling of security in your relationship.
2 Communicate with each other to establish common ground and compromise. That you differ in opinion does not mean that one of you is right and the other is wrong.
3 Learn from your partner. You always have something to learn and your relationship will strengthen when each of you contributes equally.
4 Always tell the truth if you want true love. Lying to protect your partner only generate mistrust in the long term when you get caught out as you almost certainly will be eventually. Relationships only work on trust.
5 Learn to forgive one another and forget. Forget the past and take control of the present and future. Look for a mutual agreement of a problem and commit to making it work. Non agreement is a bad sign from the past. When you learn how to come to an agreement it shows that you have learnt not to repeat the bad signs from the past and to move on.
6 Be as clear as you can be in defining your expectations within the relationship. Make sure your expectations are realistic.
7 Take responsibility for your actions. Respond to the real problems of the moment. When at fault, apologies and move on.
8 Respect and appreciate your partner and expect that they will respect you when you are in deep discussion.
9 Own up to your mistakes, apologize for them and expect your partner to do the same. After a misunderstanding, take the time to each of you explain yourselves. Communication between the two of you will be improved and your relationship will be strengthened.
10 Make the effort to find and spend valuable time together, that is time together that you both
appreciate.
11 Laugh and keep laughing and amusing yourselves! You become more fun and approachable.
maintain healthy relationship
maintaining relationships
Here are some eleven useful tips on how to maintain a healthy relationship:
1 Make clear cut agreements and keep to them. Your partner is not always going to agree with you and you are going to have to compromise. Make a compromise and agree to it. Keeping agreements builds respect with your partner and creates trust and a feeling of security in your relationship.
2 Communicate with each other to establish common ground and compromise. That you differ in opinion does not mean that one of you is right and the other is wrong.
3 Learn from your partner. You always have something to learn and your relationship will strengthen when each of you contributes equally.
4 Always tell the truth if you want true love. Lying to protect your partner only generate mistrust in the long term when you get caught out as you almost certainly will be eventually. Relationships only work on trust.
5 Learn to forgive one another and forget. Forget the past and take control of the present and future. Look for a mutual agreement of a problem and commit to making it work. Non agreement is a bad sign from the past. When you learn how to come to an agreement it shows that you have learnt not to repeat the bad signs from the past and to move on.
6 Be as clear as you can be in defining your expectations within the relationship. Make sure your expectations are realistic.
7 Take responsibility for your actions. Respond to the real problems of the moment. When at fault, apologies and move on.
8 Respect and appreciate your partner and expect that they will respect you when you are in deep discussion.
9 Own up to your mistakes, apologize for them and expect your partner to do the same. After a misunderstanding, take the time to each of you explain yourselves. Communication between the two of you will be improved and your relationship will be strengthened.
10 Make the effort to find and spend valuable time together, that is time together that you both
appreciate.
11 Laugh and keep laughing and amusing yourselves! You become more fun and approachable.
maintain healthy relationship